The son of shells

One day a young shells at the bottom of the sea pitted and complain of her mother for a sand sharp entered his body the red one and pulpy . “my son”  said the mother while overflowed with tears , “ the lord has not give to us , the shells , a hand is , that she could not help you .”

The shells storyteller august 3, 2011 fabled motivation 29 comments pearls pearls one day a young shells at the bottom of the sea pitted and complain of her mother for a sand sharp entered his body the red one and pulpy. “my son,”  said the mother while overflowed with tears, “ the lord has not give to us, the shells, a hand is, that she could not help you. “ mom fell silent, for a moment,” hurt, i know my son.But accept it as destiny nature.Strengthened your heart.Not too frisky again.Deploy your spirit against the hurt and pain that bite.Wrap it the sand with the sap your stomach.Only that you can do”, his mother said with plaintive and soft.

The shells advice is doing his mother.Is the result, but it would sick is not a abysmal. Sometimes in the pain, he doubted his mother advice.With tears he endured, many years ever.But without he realized a pearl buildup in the flesh.Are more and more subtle.Pain are more reduced.And the longer his pearl bigger.Pain to be felt more likely.Last so many years, a large pearl, intact shiny, and valuable expensive was formed in full.The distress turned into pearl, her tears turned into a great significance.He now, as a result suffered many years, more valuable than a million shells other just eaten people as shells boiled roadside.

Pebbles and sand

At the beginning a philosophy class at a university, professor stand with a few items seen dangerous at his desk.A jar mayonaisse empty, some rocks, some gravel, and sand.Students see such objects by curious.Them to wonder, what would professor that do and try to guess demonstration what will happen

Without saying a word anything , professor started laying stones small to in jars mayonaisse one by one .The students were dazed , but professor gave no explanation first. After stones came into the tube , professor speak for the first time that day .She asked to students do they think jars are full .The students agreed that jars are full .

Professor and then take a pebble on the table and slowly pour such gravel to in jars Small pebbles it found a fissure in between stones large.Professor then hit the light jar to allow gravel settled in the slit that is in in a jar.He then back ask students do jar are full, and students back agreed that jar has been full of.

The students now know what will professor do next , but they still do not understand why professor do it .Professor grabbed the sand and then pour it into mayonnaise jar .Sand , as expected , fill any space that is left in a jar .Professor for the last time asked his disciples , whether jars  were all full , and the answer is again: yes

Professor then explained that jars mayonnaise is analogy for life .He equalize stone with the most important thing in life , namely: health , your partner, children you , and everything that makes life complete 

He compares gravel for things make your life comfortable like your job , your house , and your car .Finally , he explained sand is small thingsinsignificant in your life.

Professor explain , put sand first in  jars would cause there is no room to rock or gravel .Similarly , destabilize your life by small things will cause you have no room for thingsarge valuable really.

The moral values: not everything necessary for of the happiness .Take time to with children and your partner .Finish your job when you were in office , not when you were gathered with the family .A grudge against one would not useful for you .Get your priority between now and between rocks , gravel , and sand .

A Dish of Ice Cream

One day, when a bowl of ice cream sundaes are cheaper, a boy aged 10 years into a coffee shop and sat at the table.A servant put a glass of water in front of him

“How the price to a bowl of ice cream sundaes are ?”

“50 sen”  answered the waiter

The little boy withdrew his hand out of pocket and calculate a number of a nickel in the it .

“How the price to a bowl of ice cream plain ?” The boy asked again .Some people now wait to get a table and servant getting a little impatient

“35 sen”  the servant the rough

A child the calculations coins again , and finally said “i want to buy a bowl of ice cream plain,” said

The waiter brought him ice cream order such a child , put a bill in the table and walk away leaving the child .When the child had finished eat ice cream , he pay for it at the checkout and go home .

When the manservant come back to clear the table , he began to wiping the table and then while they eat because what did he see .In the desk , placed neatly on side plate empty , coin worth 15 cents , tip to the manservant of a child last he considers to be sucks .

So wisdom that we can take of the above is: do not take a paltry or despised others , because it could be the person was will help you when you have a predicament

The Elephant Rope

When a man walked of elephants , he suddenly stop .He was puzzled by the fact that creatures big it is tied up with just a small rope tied to their front feet .No chain , no home .It is very obvious that the elephant can escape from their ties anytime .But whether for some reason , they do not do it .

She saw a coach nearby and asked the coach . “why the animals were just standing there and not trying to escape ?”

Well , when they were very young and much smaller , we use size a rope same to bind them .And , of that age , a rope that is enough to hold them .As they grow , they conditioned to believe that they cannot escape .They believe that a rope it is still can hold them , they never tried to break free. so explanation of a coach the elephant .

He was amazed. animals this could have been every time the dissolution of ties their leash .But because they believe that they cannot , they are trapped exactly where they are

Like an elephant , how many of us who live a life dependent on a belief that we can not do something , just because we fail once before ? 

Failure is part of learning.We must not give up to fight in your life

Butterfly

A find a cocoon a butterfly .One day a small hole appeared .He sat and observing in a few hours that butterflies when she struggled with forcing himself through a small hole that .Then it stops butterflies make progress .She looks like she has sought to him however we can and can not even further .

The concluded that they would help , he took a pair of shears and cut the rest of the shell restraints it .The butterfly out with easy. however , he had the body distend and small , shriveled wings. person continued to look into it because he expects that , at some point , wings will bloom and wide order to be able to support his body , that will grow in time .

Everything is not ever happened.In fact, butterflies that spend the rest of his life crawl around it with the body distend and shriveled wings.He could never fly.Which are not intelligible of the kindness and the rush the person is that a cocoon the immobilize and struggle s needed butterflies to pass through holes little is the way of allah to force a liquid of the body butterflies into its wings in a way that he will be ready fly so she got freedom from the pupa cocoon.

Sometimes struggle is all that it takes in our lives .But if he fails we live uninhibited , that may be just has us paralyzed .We may is not as strong as the should we can .We may never can fly .I pray for power? and allah gives i obstacles to make i went strong 

In the words of a cleric , ' rather than to require ' o god therefore lighten masalahku' , but  move' o god punggungku' be strong

prayer

The real story , occurring in pakistan .A dr surgeons famous ( dr .Ishan ) in a hurry to the airport .He is planning to come to conferences the world in medicine , to discuss his biggest discovery in medical field .After the airplane trip about 1 hour , suddenly announced that the plane is disrupted and had to land at the airport nearest . 

He visited the lighting and said: i am a special, every minutes of human life resorting to me, and now you ask me waiting for a plane be fixed in 16 hours?Employees said: o doctor, if you in a hurry you can rent a car, aim manda was not far from here, approximately by car 3 hours arrived.

Dr .Ishan agree with proposals the employee and rent a car .Just over 5 minutes , in a hurry weather clouded , followed by heavy rain accompanied by lightning resulting in the visibility very short 

After passed nearly 2 hours, they realized they got lost and feels exhaustion.Looks a small house not far from before, come over the house and knock. 

Heard the voice of an old lady: Please come in, who ya?

Open the door.He to enter and persuade to the mother to break sit down and want to borrow the phone.The mother smiled and said: ' call what son?Do you are not aware is the?Here there is no electricity, let alone the phone.However, enter please sit down first break, a minute i making some tea and bit of food to refreshes and restore strength you.'

Dr.Ishan like to thank her, and eat.While her prayer and prayed and slowly land approaching a kid lies not moving up a mattress with the mother, and he seemed agitated of every prayer.The mother continue prayers with do' a long a

Him and doctors say that for the sake of god , you have made i was impressed with the hospitality of you and your glory their attitude , may god answered do' a-do' a you .

Said her, son , you this is and the traveler already ordained by god for assisted .While do' a-do' a i have answered them all , except for one .Ask dr .Ishan: does that do' anya ?The mother said, child this is my grandson , he an orphan .He sick incurable by doctors that are here .They said to me this is a doctor surgeon who will be able to the cure; he said his name dr .Ishan , but he stay away from

here , that does not allow i do it to there , and i worry happens in the way .Thats why i berdo' a to god for memudahkannya .

And dr .Ishan and said while sobs: allahu akbar , do not haula quwwata illa billah .By god , really do' a mom has building a broken and must be improved long and leaving rain thunder and misled us , only to bring me to mother quickly and precisely .I belong dr .Ishan mom , and god created for like this to the servant that mu-min with do' a. this is commandments to me to treat this kid

Long hands and alms

In a history ever it is his wife, that a time after death prophet, the his wife gathered at a house one of them.And they measuring hand them in the wall to find which longest hand.These activities often make them, until the daughter of jahsy divorce. 

What it is because it is performed by the wives of the prophet saw ?It turns out , a time of rasulullah saw ever spoken as narrated bukhari and muslim

That the fastest following me from you ( my wives) is the most his hands.' lengths Tie fast following say he is zainab daughter of jahsy .While zainab having hands short and not the longest compared to the detriment of other wi

  

Why zainab?According to his wife hadith dinukil of the same, because zainab work with their hands and always charity.Even at a record issued by ath-thbarani in al-ausath specify that zainab radhiallhu ' anha knitting clothing then gave it to the prophet.The troops prophet sew and use them during the war

Finally the wives of the prophet saw was recognized and understood the prophet saw about what he refers to with ' tangan' long , namely like giving charity .And ang zainab-lah referred to in the hadith .Wallahu' nature

The story of wine the lord

A when noah son of maryam , a ruler and qodhidiwilayahmaru in turkmenistan , her daughter will marry off a beautiful , smart , and the graceful

Then come on the princes and putra2 nobleman propose to her  with offers dowry many , but the princess seemingly reluctant to accept prostitutes it 

It making his dad confused, and nor did he want to choose candidate for his daughter, because might be disappointing the other.

For a while he see grape in thegarden, since 2 months ago , guarded by mubarok a slave from india .

He asked ' subhanallah, 2 months have you live in this garden, but ca not comprehend also which wine sweet or acid 'mubarok said

 ...Servant not ever had this sir , not be understandi' ' why do not you try ' ask noah

  Mubarok said ' because you only orders servant go, and not ordered eat it, and i will not betrayed'

Apparently mubarok rather than a slave, but a man skilled acts of worship and obedience to god .

Short story noah match mubarok for his daughter , willed allah ...The beautiful princess it received the slave so her husband , and prince handsome he had leave

And of those born abdullah bin mubarok a clericlarge among tabiin.

Light a candle

What a candle in the life of ? maybe this too questionable .for , Wax only a small object .its usefulness new product when an electric a lamp in our home extinguished .but , Wax is light .and light is a form  matter .conversely was dark .the latter is not material .he has no power .he was state of being vacuous light .therefore , Although tiny , wax always have chased dark 

God example  a clue with light , straying as a dark .Hinting this , straying forces does not have an iota strength before light troops .He was present when light troops disappeared .Throughout history , the people of our experience straying when “symbol of the movement of a wheel dakwah“ stopped moving .

Here implied a rules dakwah propaganda .That dark covering the heavens our lives , could actually are rejected easy , if we want to candlelight the symbol of this back .Stop clucking dark .He anyway intangible and helpless .We do not need to call the sun to drive them out .Not also of the moon .

Nothing that can be we resolve with curses .Same as not 're useful , lamentation in front of a disaster .Unfortunate , ignorance , the defeats now rampant all over the Islamic  world we , no need to “ in islah“ with curses or lamentation .For both the act was not show attitude “ijabiyah“ ( positive ) in the face of reality . “ it would be more profitable ignite a bar of a candle than curse the darkness “

Attitude ijabiyah require us to create the presence of which balanced by the presence of the phenomenon of ignorance in the stage life .It might not be us finish in an instant .But mental attitude believe that the minimum , that must be etched in our souls , is to throw a desire to surrender or eschewed .The fact the worst though , may not exceed such large capacity lives and our faith of yours .

Here are a teaching the great.That it is time dispose of our a tendency disparaging potential ourselves.When we offer a charity very small, when we must raising our souls for the results of adequate.For charity in a, for he is good, will inspire us to do things that are larger.Ibnulqayyim said, the way of good, will invite it was do “ brethren”  the way of it.

Finally , shut your eyes and light a candle , ago: “ say , has come the truth .Behold falsehood  it would have to be was lost “ .

Father and ravens

On a certain afternoon a father with his daughters who had just finished higher education sit talking to one another in the yard while taking into account the atmosphere around them

Suddenly a raven alighted on twigs of a tree .The dad then pointed toward the crow while ask Son whether the package?

“ravens,” responsible the child

The dad nodding , but moments later repeatedly the same question .The child think his father less hear his response last and responded with little hard. “that raven father”

But for a moment then the father asked the same question .The child was a little bit angry with the same question and repeated , and responded with harder, “ raven ! !”  the dad was silent instantly .But not long and then one more time ask questions which together so made the child lost his temper and answer to the tone told him reluctantly answer the question the dad, “crow father”

But regained surprising the child , moments later the dad once again open the mouth only to bertanyakan the same question .And this time the child benar-benar losing patience and became angry

Father ! ! ! i do not understand father understand or not .But they are already five times father asking the question and sayapun has given the answer .What father i want to say ? ? ? ?It was birds crow , raven father .” , Said the child to the tone was angry

The dad then rise to into the house leaving the children terheran-heran .A little then the dad out again with that in his hand .She held out it to her baby angry and bertanya-tanya .Was it a diary long . “ would you read what was once father wrote in the book chitchat that” , said his father .The child submit and read the that follows .

“ today i in the yard with my son the even five years old.Tiba-tiba a crow perch on the tree. My son continue to pointed to the crow and ask, “Father is that?.

And i answered , “raven”

Although that , my son continue to ask the same question and whenever i replied with the same answer .To 25 times my son asked that , and by the love and honey i kept said to meet feeling the want he .I hope that this was a valuable education

After finished that part of the country the child raised the look upon the face of the dad wistful to be seen .The dad slowly sound , “ today father new ask you the same question five times , and you have lost his temper and angry .”

A brawler arts in one

Chen was a teenager man who lives in hawaii .Unlike ordinary people , he has left hand .His right hand no from birth .Because his defect that many youth another man at and often mocking , in fact some like hit and promote his head .

One day , coming home school he will and seduced some teenagers man , the incident attract attention an old man who happened to be passing by .The old man then expelling all teenagers that insulted chen , he feel sorry for chen , and he said “ i will teach you judo that there should be no bold bother you again “ .Chen confused also because he only have one hand , how might be able to studies judo .The old man finally capable of being convinced chen that he is the judo specific to a person handed one .

Finally chen agree to learn judo of the parents may and started the next day after school , he went to the house of the old to learn judo .The parents may teach chen a paces which is very difficult controlled , until a few months also chen still not fit well .Until finally entered the sixth then chen able to do it with a little good , chen were delighted and he asks to the old man to taught him the other .The parents may shook his head and said “ you are able to handle the arts ?Good , okay do it the arts more quickly and better ”

Chen continue studying diligently and finally she can take over the with the better , but he bored also , he thought  the  just the hell , when the nih learn the other ?He finally said “ teachers , i got the arts it with good , teach dong the another “ .Parents who is his teacher the said “you feel got the well ?All right then 3 more months you come the game “ .Chen uncertain , how could he possibly who handed  one have fought against the enemy that handed  two in a game ?But he thinks there is no harm to attempted , in thought chen in three months this must be his teacher teach moves  new to for the .

A week, two weeks, a month practice, chen the wonder, his teacher did not teach the new at all, he were commanded to learn control the single with movement faster and the better.Finally chen impatient and protest “ teachers, why the teacher did not teach the new anything to me, am i have fought with one hand and the only one “.His teacher still not teach the any new until 3 monthstime goes by and it was time to.

Chen started the game first elimination nervously, but because the training is very ripe, finally he can win also.The second game and third he win also with the same.Until it was time it into semifinal.Chen so nervous, he said “  teachers, fast teach me the new.I have already won three times use 1 the same, an enemy must have been can read my moves, my enemy this time the defending champion, he is very great, fast teachers, teach me “ .The teacher calmly said “ sure it, you must win “ .Chen even more nervous, finally reaching on the.The opposed to is very great, many times he can avoid locks  the chen, but in the end at a certain point he a little were naive and chen can use opportunities only seconds to incorporate the the only it possesses.Chen win again!  When finalpun arrived .Chen have confidence that had been soaring , his opponent they already had keder the first move , he finally can beat her opponent in easy and chen to be the champion ! !Yes , only with one hand and one arts , he can beat its opponents who have hands normal and diverse arts .

Chen then home to the house and partying with a bunch of relatives and friends .Then he found his teacher, and goes for a walk with his teacher that .While walking they are discussing victory chen .Chen wondered and ask to his teacher “ teachers , how can i win against those who normal with the only one ?It was very disturbing “ .His teacher said “ because you have determination steel , a strong desire , and one more , the that i shall teach it is the very difficult anticipated and very difficult it , the only way to escape from kuncian it is by locking turning the right hand you “ 

That day , on the train there are a young man with his father .The young man was 24 years old , has grown mature enough of

On the train , the young man look out the window , and said to her father .Dad ' see , those trees are being running around

A pair of young child sits adjacent .Both see youth 24 years earlier with pity .How not , to the size of her age , the ritual of the young man look so childish

But as if no matter, the youth last suddenly said again with his enthusiasm, ' father look at, the cloud seems to be follow we!

The couple young man looking impatient, and said to the fathers of the young man.' why do not you bring your son it to a doctor good

His dad only smile , and said .' i have take , and we have just from hospital .My son this before blind since small , and he only get eyes this' day

Friend , every single human being on the planet having the story each .Do not we immediately men-judge the person before we know them right .Because the truth perhaps surprise us .Always think well to everyone , because it taught prophets , and that is a good way to live ..

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Learn from the jewel

A young child visit an expert gems and convey his needs in learning .The gems refused to initially , because he is worried that young patience not sufficient to learn .The young man begged and pleading and eventually the jewel agreed to request . come here tomorrow morning.  Said

The next day, the gems laid a stone to the diamond the child young and ordered for holding it.The gem it is on his job and leave the young man alone till noon

The next day , the gems it back to the young man grasping rock same and said nothing another until the end of the day .Similarly on the third day , fourth , and fifth

The sixth day , the young man no longer and ask,  teachers , when i would be taught something ?

His teacher paused and answer,  will it was time later,  and back continue his job

POSTERIOR OPEN BITE

Posterior open bite occurs more rarely than anterior open bite and the aetiology is less well understood.

In some cases an increase in the vertical skeletal proportions is a factor, although this is more commonly

associated with an anterior open bite which also extends posteriorly. A lateral open bite is occasionally

seen in association with early extraction of first permanent molars, possibly occurring as a result of lateral

tongue spread.

Posterior open bite is also seen in cases with eruption disturbances. Primary failure of eruption is a

condition which almost exclusively affects molar teeth and has recenty been linked to a specific gene.

Affected teeth may erupt and then cease to keep pace with vertical development becoming relatively

submerged or may fail to erupt at all. Althought these teeth are not ankylosed they do not respond

normally to orthodontic force and indeed usually become ankylosed if traction is applied. Extraction is the

only treatment alternative.

More rarely, posterior open bite is sees in association with unilateral condylar hyperplasia, which also

results in facial asymmetry. If this problem is suspected, a bone scan will be required. If the scan indicates

excessive cell division in the condylar head region, a condylectomy alone, or in combination with surgery

to correct the resultant deformity, may be required.

ANTERIOR OPEN BITE

Definitions

Anterior open bite: there is no vertical overlap of the incisors when the buccal segment teeth are in occlusion. 

Aetiology of anterior open bite

In common with other types of malocclusion, both inherited and environmental factors are implicated in the aetiology of anterior open bite. These factor include skeletal pattern, soft tissues, habits, and localized failure of development.

Skeletal pattern

Individual with a tendency to vertical rather than horizontal facial growth exhibit increased vertical skeletal proportions. Where the lower face height is increased there will be an increased inter-occlusal  distance between the maxilla and mandible. Although the labial segment teeth appear to be able to compensate for this to a limited extent by further eruption, where the inter-occlusal distance exceeds this compensatory ability an anterior open bite will result. If the vertical, downwards and backwards pattern of growth continues, the anterior open bite will become more marked.

In this group of patients the anterior open bite is usually symmetrical and in the more severe cases may extend distally around the arch so that only the posterior molars are in contact when the patient is in maximal interdigitation. The vertical development of the labial segments results in typically extended alveolar processes when viewed on a lateral cephalometric radiograph.

Soft tissue pattern

In order to be able to swallow it is necessary to create an anterior oral seal. In younger children the lips are often incompetent and a proportion will achieve an anterior seal by positioning their tongue forward between the anterior teeth during swallowing. Individuals with increased vertical skeletal proportions have an increased likelihood of incompetent lips and may continue to achieve an anterior oral seal in this manner even when the soft tissues have matured. This type of swallowing pattern is also seen in patients with an anterior open bite due to a digit-sucking habit. In these situations the behaviour of the tongue is adaptive. An endogenous or primary tongue thrust is rare, but it is difficult to distinguish it from an adaptive tongue thrust as the occlusal features are similar. However, it has been suggested that an endogenous tongue thrust is associated with stigmatism (lisping), and in some cases both the upper and lower incisors are proclined by the action of the tongue.

Habits

The effects of a habit depend upon its duration and intensity. If a persistent digit-sucking habit continues into the mixed and permanent dentitions, this can result in an anterior open bite due to restriction of development of the incisors by the finger or thumb. Char-acteristically, the anterior open bite produced is asymmetrical (unless the patient sucks two fingers) and it is often associated with a posterior crossbite. Constriction of the upper arch is believed to be caused by cheek pressure and a low tongue position.

After a sucking habit stops the open bite tends to resolve, although this may take several months. During this period the tongue may come forward during swallowing to achieve an anterior seal. In a small proportion of cases where the habit has continued until growth is complete the open bite may persist.

Localized failure of development

This is seen in patients with a cleft of the lip and alveolus, although rarely it may occur for no apparent reason. 

The story of a grandfather and thieves papaya

I want to musing we started this time by recalling in one of the story of life that may be many left in front of our eyes .This story about a grandfather simple , live as a village that is earthy .An afternoon , he find persistence papaya tree in front of his house has been fruitful .Although only two pieces but has yellowing of and ready harvested .She plans to pluck fruits of it in the next day .But , when morning comes , and found a single his pepper lost stolen people

It is so sad , until his wife was surprised.”cook just because a papaya you so morose”  said his wif

That is not what i sad “of the grandfather, "i thoughts, how hard the man took papaya us .He must hidden away at midnight that did not get caught the .Not to mention should climb it with great effort to can be made 

Than that bune “ further the grandfather ,” i am going to borrow households and i put under the tree papaya us , hopefully he came back tonight and will have no trouble to yet pick up the other “

But when the morning reappear , and found papaya living a remained with stairs without shift at all .He tried to be patient , and hope the thief reappear in tonight .But in the next morning , still fruit of the papaya is still in place

At the end of the day, the grandfather of a guest who carrying fruit fruit of the papaya large in his hand.He has never know the visiting the.Anyway, after talking long, while he was farewell guests it very sorry admit that is who had stolen his pepper

“actually  “said the guest” night later i want to steal fruit of the papaya left .But when i found there are stairs there , i awakened and since then i are determined not to stealing again .For it , i returned pa you and to make amends i , i gift papaya i recently bought in the market for you.”

Wisdom from loss

At a time, in a rural china, live an elderly man and his family.The man process a garden and had several pet, one for the is a male horse .A while, horses owned old man up was missing .Some neighbors said d seen the horse ran past the boundary that should not be accommodated villagers. The old man be sad, but he said, ' it is , perhaps it is not something bad and who knows will come something right.

After day by the day, at night, the old man shocked by the sound of a horse. He instantly rise up and looked toward the outside of the house, looked lost his horse has and bring back a female horse whether belonging to who becomes his partner. Of course, like those rules in the village, a horse that is not their knowing or wild will be theirs who discovered. The neighbors congratulate on old man have regained his horse as well as additional one horse at no charge.

After the clock, the sons of the old man start practicing to get up the back of a horse and spur a horse the area plantation around. Unfortunately, one day, the boy fell from up the back of a horse and has a knee injury is very severe .Need to a long time to recover, but even if thing, the boy it did not work normal.' never mind, son' said the old man, ' perhaps it will bring something better for you.

And as a preceding occurrence, the old man feel back something that good. In the it was the war, all boys in the village must bear arms and fight on the battlefield .But due to a defect, boys the old man fixed in the village and work cultivate a garden. No one regretted, that sons that do as did his fathe, he believes there will be wisdom behind this terrible thing that causes he lost manner of walking normal.

Years changed years .The war is over and the boys who fought return to the village .It turns out just a few back, since most of they turn were killed in battle. The man deep slightly grateful that his son fixed in a healthy condition and the smart taking care of the estate .So , not was nothing to regretted because for the family , happiness does not has been assumed only at the time of something happened, but also in times of late.

Friend , wisdom of the story we must learn that every time we felt the loss, indeed what we weeping not literally, because at the time when that we might not have think, we will get wisdom of a sense of loss the .We are about to taste more joy it if we d never felt lost. But it would happy that will come when we can eat in false what has been lost, not with to lament or bewail continuous.

Meaning a woman

A children have teenagers asked his father

Father    :        God Give You Strength From Within To Be Able To Give Birth To A Child, And Received    Have A Frequenter Of His Children. God Gives Violence To Make It Stand Firm When Other People Give Up, But He Was Take Care Of Their Families By Suffering And Exhaustion Without Complaining.

Children :       That's fine

Father    :        Not Only That , He Also Gave Sensibility To Love His Sons In Any State Of even When His Sons Acting So Hurt Him .

Child      :        It Turns Out That Women That Was So Awesome Yes , Father ?

Father    :        There More Each owned A Woman .

Child      :       What Is Wel.

Father    :       God Gave Him Force To Support Her Husband On Failure And Furnish Ribs Her Husba To  Protect His Heart .He May Wisdom To Know That A Good Husband Will Never Hurt His Wife .But Sometimes Test Strength And The Command Of His Heart To Be On The Side Her Husband Without Hesitation.

Child      :      And How With The Man ?

Father    :        Men Have To Make Woman Feel Comfortable And Protected Right biside him. Never Make Hearts Injured Female, If Men Intend Beat On That Young Lady, Remember Sacrifice Woman Who Has Delivered.

rich and poor

One day , a father who coming from a wealthy family take their child in one travel around the country by the purpose show the child how poor the life of people around .They then they spend a few days in a house agriculture considered the dad by the very poor .

After the return from their way , the dad question his son:

How was the trip son?

A great journey well.

Did you see how poor people life ? , “the father said” 

O of course , “responsible the child” 

Now tell , what you learn from that ride , “ said the father”.

The child answer:

I see that we have a dog , but they have four dog .We got a pool whose lengths to the middle of our park , but they have a tributary there is no end .We bring the lights for the us , but they have starlight at night .A terrace our place to sit extending up front page , and a terrace they are horizon broad .We have the narrow to stay , but they have looked as far as the field. We have attendant services us , but they minister to one another .We bought our food , but they grow its own food .We have all over the wall to protect us , and they have friends to protect them .The father of the children can only numb .And the child added their words: “ father , received ”

The story of 3 people a builder

In a small village there is a boy who was walking across the location of which will be built a school .The boy see there are three people who were working there.

Mr , while do that ? ' ask him to the first

you can see for yourself , i this is an artisan , i was doing my job as artisan bangunan' he answered

So the was asking the same question to the second ' mr , while do that ?

' i was helping a school it makes school.' responsible building a second

And the boys are ask the same question to the third ' sir, and commit that? '

A third answer , ' i is trying to build a dream children in this village so that they dared dream a little high and achieve their goals , so that they bring benefits in society

Man, that vision .. we may do the exact same thing with colleagues us, We may do the same business partners and competitors us.But possess distant vision in there and capable of soulful for anyone who has heard

Ask ourselves , about this job we do today is only to fill the stomach of next month ?

Moreover our worship, whether it is only for drop obligation? or do we had a vision that long way to in the hereafter?

Essentially there are some people became careless in this world , and that is not a problem that large , as long as they want to change and listen to advice people in the surrounding areas .But , the same thing does not happen to this young man , even after he earn money and worked as security in an office in the city .His duty examine all the rooms after home the office and locked the door before the final main home to his rental house .Have repeatedly he be reminded to carefully and check all the room beforehand , to the office to be left in good condition and safe .

Instead of done their job well , he even often not checked every room , so some light often left in condition is not put out .That afternoon after other employees home , the young man hurried and lock that main entrance , without checking every room carefully

All go well , until an hour later a a telephone call from his superior out a employees have locked in their offices .

His superiors has been in office , also some other employees who had enjoying a coffee in a cafe the their offices .The man apologize and admitted his guilt , that he had no problems means for the incident .But , this incident gave him one important lesson , who is from his mother . when you do well , it was like a cup of tea warm use , when stirred they calm and the color remained the same even after a long .

But when you do wrong , then it is like a cup of black coffee , when stirred are they so tempting and the color will be directly murky and black , although settles had had long .So people will always remember deed your fault , son , although has long passed

His mother advice really be true , for since that day youth they are always to be an gaff workers in there .Some of them even often sat it down by jest , do not let leave and locked them at the office , such as the employees of earlier

Life is not as easy as imagined

Smart and always school students , who does not want to be someone like this? But do you know, that for like is not easy .Because life is not as easy as you can imagine .

Has long rani so often seen nina, her classmates a new high school.Among them were junior hing school different, and both new know each other after sitting in the high school a few months ago.Both she and nina, they feel lucky and glad to be able meet and know each other at the school.

Nina so smart , with ability to learn that could be said of on average. He always can keep up with everything lessons easily , understand and respond quickly .Nina smart in learning , not only on one subjects , but nina superior in all subjects in his class .This is what makes rani wonder , although he me rather including a brilliant and always get ranked secondary schools his first .But when study in the same class with nina , she did not seem at bay by the nina there , although his attitude is not arrogant and fucking smartas

Nina can also to communicate and get along fine in all people, not only his friends, even in where the teachers also.The way he was so sweet and sincere, so that all people like him, even rani also.Not only smart and friendly just, nina also has paras sweet and generous smile, so he is favored by his friends

At first , rani so it is nice to know and close to nina , for the that one is very friendly .But , sooner or later rani were changing attitudes , he is beginning to see nina as a threat , whether it is for outstanding achievements as well as its existence in school .She started to change and slightly quiet to him , occasionally he even avoid as they were to passed in class .Instead of away , nina actually more often approached rani and be as usual .This makes rani increasingly clumsy , for piecemeal he started hate to his friend this one 

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She felt that life nina so easily and fun , although nina look relaxed have a study in class , nina can still do all questions and answer a question teachers easily .It all looks very easy for nina , even it is easy for the rani .This type of thinking inhabits heart rani for some time , until one day he visited a him .

Already two day nina ill and not in school , until finally rani and some people friend and guardian his class decided to visit her at home .This for the first time rani go to the nina , it turns out it is located far enough and have to pass through narrow alleys at the end of village. About 10 km , nina pedaled her bike every day to school .His teacher who also live in the area know and recognize with nina parents who apparently only an artisan garbage roving complex in place of residence of the teacher was .Nina enter high school the same with rani on recommendations the teacher to the foundation so that the owner he was given the opportunity to participate in the test and get scholarships .Not just because of course just know , but because nina always performed well since sat on the bench primary school.

Rani arrived in the yard of a house clean and tidy , complete with the bottles beverages which have been planted colorful flowers .The building so simple , vastness not even more than 6x5 meters .Nina sitting in front of holding a book and the lesson , a little shocked friends saw the arrival of his class and the guardian .Some books lined pile beside himself , it looked like all secondhand books , perchance collected by her father when collect trash 

She could not believe it , apparently his colleagues pain is was studying algebra textbook them in chapter to 16 and that is the latest chapter in first class .While in school , they even just entering chapter to 7 last week .Nina have studied almost all the contents of a book the math at home , complete with matter of matter discussion .Rani ashamed of themselves and also the way he was so far , for achievement nina was obtained from hard work that never he pointed out.

Learn Survival Of A Mouse Small

In a kitchen that is a little dark , a mouse inched while occasional sniff a variety of goods are they had found in there. His movement looked frisky , with body size of no more than half of adults head course. It seems, this first rats came away, because he has little confusion and try to recognize every part of the kitchen cluttered with it. First trip he should be done with very caution, not ?

But unlucky for mice that little , suddenly the kitchen previously dark and only hit by aligned the light from a space next to him be own gain , in unison with a “click” a very short and surprising .Small rodents surprised , a little staggered back , and finally falling into a a large bowl wet .Reaching the live there , heard footsteps someone who enters the kitchen area , turning a tap westafel and back amaze him with a water a little too profusely to wet it. But small rodents stands still in there , although the body has been all wet since falling into the bowl .

A tap dead and a back kitchen quiet , so also with the lights extinguished for a moment after the person passed by the same as before .Mice that little a moment of stunned silence , are still waiting for until the condition is safe. He moved is slowly , but it little weight .He trying to jump into out of a large bowl , but his body now slightly sticky and feel slippery in all parts .How not , little rat is just landed in a a large bowl in and ¾ its parts of oil cooking slippery .Harder for him to jump out , or even just to simply scratch for the talons sharp with a bowl for can threw yourself out .The whole surface of the this bowl so slippery , to impossible for him to be jumped by relying on the feet of small.

Tired ? Of course , it is the first time little rat is swims in the cooking oil slick .His sticky now feels have grown tired , until he would dwell a moment and figure out what to do for recover from a large bowl are not hospitable to his arrival this .But also make it a tired , or even more precisely desperate

Rats start agitated and fear , but he ca not dead , especially in in a bowl slippery this .Slowly feet legs small start driven movement regularly , no matter what is premeditated with it .Maybe , he attempted to spend all the rest of their power .

Dawn come and small rodents it still just rolled its feet in liquids the cooking oil , this time with a gesture more slowly .Maybe he had very exhausted , until no longer have the energy to move with quick . “click” kitchen lights back flared and followed with footfall same as last night .Small rodents a bit in shock and jumped quickly , outward from a large bowl place staying overnight .The homeowner is not less shocked , see the little mouse run fast leaving a large bowl full of viscous oil that looks more like butter , for all night full of stirring up his legs moving the oil until thickened and can make it easier to jump to the outside.

The story on not teach us to be like settles on the way to the home.But the story on teach us to try to and hard working in the face of trouble.As is the case in reaching the has struggled in survive.Because by hard work and unyielding, one problem we can face.

Learn from the farmers

Life the farmers that peace and fixed happy in the midst of his life simple,  The same as pattern their lives , these farmers can also viewing and limit their minds with simple and common.

Imagine , they sow rice seeds and leave a source of their lives it in the rice paddies and fields that is far , but they still sleep all night. What if pest rice spend it rice that tonight ?What if floods and the storm , and thwart harvest ?

If always is worrying things like that , so these farmers will not be able to happy in his sleep tight. But they are those who know and understand with clear its limit as human beings.

They work in maximum all day and to spend all the best that rice fields and fields, and the rest, let lord that will determine, not?

This story teach us to always work the maximum in everything that are we doing. Do not be afraid to fail in doing something as all things certainly there are risks .May the lord determine the rest

TAXI THE ADUL

I am waiting in line for riding in a taxicab at the airport dubai.When the taxi was stopped, the first thing i notice is that taxi was so clean and glossy

The driver dress white shirt , tie black , and black pants jump out and walked around the car to open the passenger door for me .

He gave cards laminates and said:

I am abdul .While i manaruh your bag in the trunk i want you to read my mission statement

I was surprised to read the card is .Said to be

Mission statement:

To deliver customers into their destination with the fastest, safest and cheapest and create friendly neighbours.

When i was behind, abdul said:

Do you want a cup of coffee ?I have a flask and one without caffeine coffee

I jokingly:

No , i prefer soft drinks

Abdul smiled and said:

No problem. I have cooling contains regular and diet coke, cola, water and orange juice

Almost nervous i said

I will take cola

While thrusting my beverages , abdul said

If you want something to be read , i have the nst , star and the sun toda

Then abdul handed cards other:

If i wanted to listen to the radio and music

Seems not enough, abdul told me that the van it has air conditioner and asked if the temperature air conditioning comfortable for me

Then he suggested i best route to my goal for the day .He also told me that he would love to chat and told me about some spectacle or places another interesting

I said , ' i was amazed and asked :

' whether you always serving customers like this ?

Abdul smiled to the mirror , ' not , not necessarily .Even , honestly i do in the last two years .For five years first i worked as a driver , i spent most of the time i to complain as all cab drivers other .Then one day i heard a story about the power select

The power of choice that you can choose into ducks or hawk

If you get up in the morning expecting to have a bad day , you will fail yourself .Stop complaining

Wishful so duck .Be a hawk .Duck just complaining .An eagle flying high above the crowd

It hit me and blew my mind wide open , ' said abdu

this is about me .I did continually complain , so i decided to change my attitude and a hawk

I looked all around, many taxi dirty, driver who are just as hostile, and the customer an unhappy

I decided to make some changes , slowly ... gradual but surely .When my customer responding well , i do it again

My first year as a hawk, i earn a living doubled from the previous year.This year my income rose four times.Customers i always call me for him back

Abdul make a choice different .He decided to stop being duck and start flying like an eagle

Start be a hawk today ... the one small step every Day , every week ..And then ...And then .... * there is no late * rectify yourself and your abilities in different ways .Be an eagle ... is not a duck